H-Factor Where Is Your Heart


WHAT IS YOUR HAPPINESS? COMPLAINING BY LISA CYPERS KAMEN

By Lisa Cypers Kamen, Harvesting Happiness

Your complaints may seem fully justified, but realize that whenever you complain, you are placing your order for more of the same.  Complaining is not merely about the past.  Whenever you make a complaint, realize you are setting an intention — a goal — for the future.

Complaining is the act of reinforcing what you don’t want and intending even more of it.  It’s the act of dwelling on the negative.

The complainers are merely witnessing the fulfillment of their own requests.  Every thought is an intention, and complainers habitually intend what they don’t want.  So it makes perfect sense they live in a reality consistent with those thoughts.  The complainer may tell you their reality is causing their complaints, but it’s more accurate to say their reality is reflecting their complaints.

Complaining is also addictive.  The more you do it, even within your own mind, the more it becomes an ingrained habit and the harder it is to stop. Consider that if something unfortunate happens to you, and you’re going to complain about it afterwards, then there must have been some kind of complainer seed within you in the first place… before that negative event took place.  You must already have been the kind of person who’s predisposed to complain.

Really positive people who are good at manifesting don’t complain.  Even when things don’t go their way, they keep directing their thoughts towards the positive side.  They expect that things will eventually go their way.  They also take action to participate in the positive manifestation.

Independent filmmaker, author, happiness coach and speaker Lisa Cypers Kamen creates these blogs to entertain, enlighten and educate us as we each undertake our own personal search for happiness and shares them with http://www.motherhoodincorporated.  Happiness is an Inside Job. To contact Lisa, email her directly at lisa@whatisyourhappiness.com and check out her websites at www.whatisyourhappiness.com & www.harvestinghappiness.com and listen to her on http://toginet.com/shows/harvestinghappiness or download her show at www.itunes.com.

Harvesting Happiness with Lisa Cypers Kamen brings to the airwaves a fresh talk radio approach promoting happiness, well-being and global human flourishing by presenting a diverse and proactive collection of the greatest thinkers and doers who have devoted their lives to creating a better world in which to live.

Weekly on www.toginet.com Wednesday’s at 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm EST

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